Complement on yourself. Give yourself good points whether physically emotionally. For instance, tell yourself that you look good on your new dress or you worked on the situation well. Complements tend to make your mood better. Try to focus on every positive side in any situation.
Do yourself a favor and have a makeover. Looking good can make you feel good. Make an effort to wear something attractive, put on a little makeup and go to a salon for a new hairstyle. This can give you confidence and realize that you can indeed look your best. It is a good idea to pay attention about your health and fitness. You do not need to have a supermodel image but keeping yourself fit by daily exercise can improve your health as well as your mood. Exercise can give you positive energy, which is very important with how you deal with people around you.
Treat yourself occasionally. Take time for yourself and go shopping, watch movies or eat in a nice restaurant. Pamper yourself with relaxing massage and go to health spa. Everybody needs a break after a long week of hard work and you deserve to have one. Traveling with family and friends can make a big difference in your perspective in life. Going to places that you have always wanted to go is a good way to reward yourself.
Make a list of your strengths and weaknesses. Focus on your strengths and on how you can develop them. On the other hand, reflect on your weak points so that you will be able to know how to change them. This way, you can know more about yourself and love yourself even more.
Do an act of kindness everyday. Do something good to other people. Even how simple and small it is, the act can give you a good feeling and a sense of fulfillment for the whole day.
Be aware of what you can and cannot do. Try to evaluate yourself and be honest on your assessment. The way you see yourself is just the same way other people see you. If you think you are funny and lovable, chances are they think of you the same way.
Do not be too hard on yourself. Learn to forgive. Nobody is perfect and it is normal to make mistakes. Many things can attribute to your mistakes and being too tough on yourself will only give you reasons to have doubts and worries. Realize your mistakes and find out ways to prevent doing them again. Learn from your bad experiences and let them serve as lessons, which made you stronger in facing life’s challenges.
Value and love yourself more to be able to get love in return. People around you can surely benefit from the changes you make.
By: S101
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